MEL

Redefining Luxury

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Self-Care Specialist

A professional woman for a personalised experience

You crave new adventures and recognise the value that comes from real connections and investing in yourself. You need devoted, personalised care that caters to your desires, providing a refuge from the daily grind. You want someone who can set aside the weapons of mass distraction and make you their sole focus. You’re drawn to someone whose mind can dance with yours, someone who can keep pace in both thought and conversation. You long for a companion whose warmth and vivacity brighten every moment — someone who inspires you, ignites your passions, listens intently, and stimulates you head to toe.

“Some people live for the rules
I live for exceptions”
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I dwell in possibility

Vital Statistics

Altitude| 5'5''

Mass| 123lbs

Epoch| Mid 30s

Launch Date | June 20th

Proportions| 32GG-25-35

Views| Live and let live, even if you don't agree. Don't be an asshole. Your right to swing a fist stops an inch from someone else's face.

Will you join me?

Whet Your Appetite

Indulgence Awaits

You live in a fast-paced world of instant gratification, endless communication, and constant demands for pieces of you. They take, and you give — one thing after another. You see your life spread out before you like a game of cards being dealt — each moment hitting the table so fast they start to blur together.

Stop.

Close your eyes. Take my hand. Breathe in.
Open your eyes, and look into mine. Exhale. Let go.

Relax.

Very rarely do we remember to take that important moment to breathe, plan indulgences, and set aside time for self-care. Even less often do we treat ourselves to the things we enjoy, crave, and need most. We get one life to enjoy as much as we can. It is time to stop wanting, time to stop needing, and time to start having.

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
Mary Oliver

Are deep, passionate, and intense — a person in need of an escape from their daily life. You seek a companion who will engage your senses, tantalise your mind, awaken your fire, and ignite your passions. You understand that true stimulation starts with the mind and slowly envelops every part of you as time unfolds.

You already know what I want: to make you happy. You have a great sense of humour, love laughter, and cherish good times. You find intelligent conversation to be the best precursor to a memorable evening. You're smart with your money, preferring to plan and indulge in things and experiences of enduring value. You know what’s real is always worth it, and that anticipation is its own form of indulgence.

You value interesting people and consider yourself a connoisseur of good company. Whether it’s sharing dinner and drinks, a quiet night in, or a grand adventure... you realise it’s the who as much as the what that makes the experience. You seek someone nice to look at, down to earth, and fully present. You are looking for someone who composes themselves with decorum and prefers to avoid drama, strife, and negativity. You are seeking to relax with someone who understands you — someone who smiles, laughs, and makes you do the same.

You are receptive, aware, appreciative. You take the time to notice and enjoy the small details and amenities, rather than rushing through to hurry on to the next thing. You appreciate soft lighting, soft music, and soft skin — savouring the attention to detail that elevates every moment. You understand that life is best enjoyed like sipping a fine wine or lingering over a great meal and that certain moments are meant to be paused on and indulged in.

You value privacy and discretion, enjoying being the centre of attention in private while blending in seamlessly in public. You value a companion on the same page with this ethos.

You are generous, warm-hearted, and eager to please — the kind of person who puts others first, does what you can to make them happy, and helps those with less when the opportunity arises. You love making people smile and helping when you can, but you know you can’t pour from an empty cup. This is where I come in—offering the respite and indulgence you know you deserve. If you see yourself in these words at all I encourage you to continue reading, and I look forward to meeting you soon.

Me*lis”sa n, a feminine name: dim. Mel; Sweet; Outgoing; Honest; Easy to talk to; Sarcastic; Girl next door with an enigmatic twist; Acronym: MELISSA: My Entire Life Is Spent Striving Ahead.

I was born on the tail end of things being built to last. I have sculpted myself into an adaptive, resilient person ready for whatever life has up its sleeve. I grew up on the back of a motorcycle and have spent my years on the road ever since — cultivating my skills, absorbing experiences, and becoming a facilitator of grand adventures. Now, I’m here to help you begin yours.

I’m genuinely interested in what makes you you. I love figuring out what makes you both tick and explode, continually surprising and pleasing you in all the best ways. I believe deeper connections deepen pleasure, and I will take your satisfaction to new peaks each time we meet. Like the finest wine, our visits only get better with time. I am but soft clay — waiting for your warm, firm hands to knead my impossibly soft skin; a canvas of freckled constellations meant to be traced by your touch. Together, we’ll breathe in moments where time stands still and luxury becomes the art of indulgence. The essence of luxury isn’t about expensive brands and showing off — it’s about quality, thoughtfulness, and the details that make you feel pampered and cherished. Luxury is about quality. A bed with fresh sheets, important details remembered, a plush robe, a handwritten note, the soft glow of candlelight dancing — all subtle reminders that true luxury isn’t about a price tag and proof that the simplest pleasures are often the most profound. Luxury is about quality. If you're here for someone who cares what colour the bottom of their shoes are, you are in the wrong place.

I am a specialist in the real. I look forward to lingering over fine conversation as your hands discover the stories written in my skin, each freckle a star in a galaxy only you can navigate. I love soft skin, soft music, and soft touch. As time dissolves in a room with no clock, we will lazily become intoxicated by each other.

You could describe me as a walking contradiction, an artist, a writer, and a perfectionist who enjoys both the simpler and finer things in life — they’re not mutually exclusive. Never once have I been described as typical, average, or ordinary. Instead, I find myself described as witty, outgoing, and creative. I hear that I have a great sense of humour and love making people laugh — something I promise to do often. Life is about humour and finding joy in every moment.

I am infinitely adaptable and endlessly flexible. I own a home in the mountains and rent one in the city. I go back and forth as I please and make my own schedule. My outdoor hobbies include walking, hiking, backpacking, cycling, primitive camping, and kayaking. Indoors, I enjoy playing my arcade machine, working out while watching videos, or spending time with a book, canvas, computer, or console. I hope to get back into sculpture someday with a woodshop and maybe some metalworking equipment, but for now, I use found materials. To relax, I love cross-stitching, gardening, painting, sculpting, spending time with my animals, and cooking. I also have a deep love of driving and cars — namely, of the three-pedal variety.

I am a simple person who lives a simple life on my own terms. I live by the adage I never wish to be the company that misery loves. Your right to swing your fist ends an inch from my face, and I deeply believe in the adage “live and let live” as well as “life is too short for hate” The world is complicated enough, and I see no reason to add to that. I value privacy so I choose not to carry a smartphone, and I conduct all communication through encrypted email or self-destructing messages. That said, it is my preference that the vast majority of our interaction not be screen based — but rather cheek to cheek, body to body, hand to hand. I like to provide a space where the internet doesn't bleed into reality.

Are you ready to heighten your senses and unlock the next level of self-care? If this has spoken to you, it's time to let me help you redefine luxury.

It’s about the kind of moments where the world falls away, where connection feels effortless and genuine. Time slows as we indulge in the luxury of being present. The moments we craft will linger in your memories long after our time has passed. We’ll share quiet laughter, and meaningful conversation that weaves itself into the fabric of the evening. Our stolen glances will speak volumes, silent exchanges that say more than words ever could.

Whether it’s a quiet evening in — wrapped in the warmth of soft fabrics and softer touch — or an adventure that sets hearts racing and sparks inspiration, it’s always about the moments we create together. It’s about the way your hand feels in mine, the way the air shifts when we’re close, and the way the world seems to pause just for us.

It’s not about what we do, but how we do it — intentionally, authentically, and with attention to detail. Together, we’ll craft something that is uniquely ours. Something that brings lightness, joy, and a sense of escape from the demands of everyday life. Whenever we get together, the world slows down...the noise fades. All that remains is the connection we share and the adventure we are about to have. No drama, no stress — just the ease of being together and the joy of whatever comes next.

Our story has yet to be written, but this is where it begins.

A Curation of Distinction

What's real is always worth it

I love and cherish gifts — as most people do. But please remember gifts and tips are always optional, and the best treasure is the pleasure of your company on repeat visits as we become regular friends. However, if you wanted to spark joy in my heart a different way, feel free to swipe through this curation of brands I enjoy:

If you prefer more direction, I encourage you to check my Amazon wishlist for everyday ideas, my Marigold account for more luxurious offerings, or perhaps my photography wishlist if you really want to get me going. I also collect leather envelopes, dossiers, and portfolios. Those are an easy slam dunk.

Above and Beyond

Want to move mountains? Ask me in person, or long-distance suitors can reach out to contribute towards or fully fund the following projects I have planned.

Sponsor a Project

New sheds

Sponsor Garden

Re-build balcony

Re-pave driveway

Fence in property

Tools for woodshop

Electrical upgrades

Home gym equipment

Yoga Teacher Training

Re-do two countertops

One room of new flooring

One room of furniture/props

Repair/rebuild retaining wall

Upgrades to plumbing and septic

Upgrade outdoor spigot/irrigation for gardens

Buy adjoining parcel when it comes up for sale

Philanthropy

Help me help others

My true passion is community outreach. I don’t want “X cents on the dollar” to help people, I want to help people. Our lives are but a speck of dust in the grand scheme of this existence, and our entire purpose on this earth is to make it better for the next group of people that come along. We live in the age of arrogance and the era of entitlement. We can only move out of that by recognising it and doing more for others. The only way I see to do that is by improving the lives of people who are alive today and need help so that they can build better futures to pass on. You can talk to me directly to find out what hands on projects I've got going, or here are some organisations near and dear to my heart.

You may be asking yourself WHY? at this point. Why? The real question is why not? There is no such thing as a “lost cause” when you are referring to a human being. We are in such a position of privilege in this industry to really reach out to people with resources who can help those in need. It also serves as a way to make a positive impact using an industry most see as a blight on society. It's fun to defy stereotypes and prove people wrong, if nothing else.

“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.”
Pericles

Charities

I prefer doing hands on work whenever possible. For the things I can't help directly, the following are charities I support:

NCWIT

Anita B

Lysistrata

TechWomen

Black Girls Code

Red Canary Song

Feed My Starving Children


I can't give you a tax deduction, but I will take up to $100 off your visit if you donate $250 or more to one of the charities on this list in my name (with proof).
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